Ladybug Speaks the Truth

  If you look at Asshole's Facebook, his relationship status is always "in a relationship" of some sort. However, I am not sure if he knows the definition of relationship. Perhaps, he doesn't mean "in a healthy relationship." Oxford Languages (Goolge) has this to say about relationship: re·la·tion·ship noun the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected. "the study will assess the  relationship between  unemployment and political attitudes" Similar: connection relation association link correlation correspondence parallel tie-in tie-up alliance bond interrelation interconnection interdependence of the state of being connected by blood or marriage. "they can trace their relationship to a common ancestor" Similar: family ties family connections blood relationship blood ties kinship affinity consanguinity common ancestry common lineage connection propinquity the way in which two or mor...

  Flying Monkey might not be a term that you are familiar with, or at least you weren't before you met Asshole. He loves using this term, because he in fact uses Flying Monkey's to try to manipulate people. He may have even turned you into a Flying Monkey without you even knowing it. I think that everyone has seen The Wizard of Oz. The wicked witch has her flying monkeys that she sends to do her bidding. Whatever she wants done, she sends them, so that she doesn't have to lift a finger. That's what narcissists do. They send Flying Monkeys to send messages, or do things for them to their victims. What are flying monkeys?   The term ‘flying monkeys’ is another way of saying ‘abuse by proxy’ or having someone else do the bidding of in this case a narcissist. If you click the link above, it is a great article that explains how narcissists groom you and your friends to be their flying monkeys. An example of how Asshole tried to manipulate someone to be a flying monkey was an...

  I have decided that this week, we are going to be focusing on words and definitions. Asshole has lots of big words that he likes to throw around, however he clearly has no clue what they actually mean. So, without further ado, let's begin Word of the Day Week here at Ladybug Speaks Truth. Obviously we need to kick off the week strong with Asshole's favourite word, Narcissist. Oxford Languages has this to say about narcissist: nar·cis·sist noun a person who has an excessive interest in or  admiration  of themselves. "narcissists who think the world revolves around them" Wikipedia has this to say about Narcissism: Narcissism  is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive preoccupation with oneself and one's own needs, often at the expense of others. [1] [2] Narcissism exists on a continuum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression. [3]  While there exists  normal, healthy levels of narcissism  in humans, the...

  I forgot I took a screenshot of something Asshole posted online... Middle is a picture of me in the green and black dress that he fell in love with from my OKCupid profile. It's in the background of all of his well staged photos from the time when he was obsessed with manipulating me.  However, I want to talk about the outer two pictures... And Easter 2019. I originally wrote this for another blog, and you can find the original version  here. I had rules... As a single mom of three kids, I had rules and boundaries. One of which was no meeting my kids until Asshole spent a weekend at my place without them there, I spent a weekend at his place and we had to have been dating for a significant amount of time. Needless to say, Asshole is manipulative and rules 2 and 3 were broken. We had been dating about a month when Easter rolled around. Significant weekend in the Catholic and Anglican calendars. I assumed that we would be spending it apart and with our respective families...