Word of the day


 

I have decided that this week, we are going to be focusing on words and definitions.

Asshole has lots of big words that he likes to throw around, however he clearly has no clue what they actually mean.

So, without further ado, let's begin Word of the Day Week here at Ladybug Speaks Truth.

Obviously we need to kick off the week strong with Asshole's favourite word, Narcissist.

Oxford Languages has this to say about narcissist:

nar·cis·sist
noun
  1. a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves.
    "narcissists who think the world revolves around them"
Wikipedia has this to say about Narcissism:

Narcissism is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive preoccupation with oneself and one's own needs, often at the expense of others.[1][2]

Narcissism exists on a continuum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression.[3] While there exists normal, healthy levels of narcissism in humans, there are also more extreme levels of narcissism, being seen particularly in people who are self-absorbed, or people who have a pathological mental illness like narcissistic personality disorder.


Excessive interest or admiration of themselves... That reminds me of my first date with Asshole. 

He had planned a day of walking around Stratford where he basically showed me everything that was important to him. He showed me where he allegedly worked, although he couldn't take me inside, and he showed me his favourite shops in Stratford, of which there were many. One thing that I continually noticed throughout the day, was every time we passed a mirror or a window that gave a reflection, Asshole was preening and admiring himself. He was constantly fixing his hair, or something about him. I commented a couple of times, and he told me, yes he was vain. It made me laugh at the time. However I found it odd that someone so vain and obsessed with his hair the way he was, had... umm.., such bad teeth. 

I keep meaning to write about that here, such a red flag for someone to be so vain and self obsessed, and have such bad teeth, when he worked somewhere with such a great benefits package.

It makes me wonder what Asshole sees when he looks in the mirror. Does he see himself as we see him, the real version, or does he see his over inflated ego that makes him think that he is Prince Eric? (He once made a reference to himself as that, from the Little Mermaid and it was everything I could do to contain my laugh. He really thinks that he is a Disney Prince?)

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