Hoover

 


Asshole spent a considerable amount of time trying to Hoover me back in after the final discard.

Things ended July 3, 2019. As of Summer 2021 he was still posting about me on his blog as the DLLOML. Of course, Summer 2021 he would be dating someone else too, so how serious was he about what he was writing about me.

The lengths that Asshole went to Hoover me back in are well documented in this blog. Heck, the first what, hundred posts, are taken from the letters that he sent me trying to prove that he was a changed man.

Asshole doesn't actually want to be in a relationship with anyone. He just wants someone (preferably with children) to manipulate and control.

I don't even think that Asshole is really capable of love. He is just capable of saying the same script over and over again. It's a movie that he has written and just keeps recasting the leading lady. 

Right now, Asshole is in the Hoovering stage with someone else. His Facebook posts are full of promises that will never come to fruition. Promises of performances at the Stratford Festival, promises of a future with her kids and his. (He keeps forgetting that some of his kids is an adult, and therefore he can't get full custody of like he keeps talking about.)

Even though Asshole is in the Hoover stage, I have found that he is probably also in the love bombing stage with someone else. He seems to have someone in every stage, as this is really just one big game.

He forgets that this is a real game, and that he is ruining people's lives.

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