More Backpocket Manifesto Finds

 **As always, the text in purple is from Google Docs converting an image to text. Anything in black is my thoughts/interpretations.**

Just when you think that we are finished with the Manifesto, we find some more goodies! 

1. I met Amanda Ruth Cuff (née Verhoeven) almost a

year ago. I never thought I would meet someone so special and fall in love after I initiated my divorce but I did. We fell in love very fast and we both said we had found the one wanted to spend the rest of our lives with. For me, I found the great love of my life.

(All evidence I have seen suggests that he initiated the divorce AFTER I broke up with him, because he lied about not being divorced! )

2. This whole matter began with a miscommunication of a number and the assumptions and misunderstandings arising from reading the draft affidavit of my divorce papers. I felt and I still believe it could/can be resolved because I have always believed and still believe that if we act like adults and talk, and not hide, run, and ignore, this is fixable and it is worth it! I will do anything for Amanda because SHE and US is/are worth it!!

(Correct, our entire relationship began because of a misunderstanding of information. Asshole lied about absolutely everything, and he misunderstood how I would react to learning the truth.)

3. I think Amanda wants this relationship. She has a hard time with communication and paranoia, and she has admitted it.

(False, I have a hard time communicating with paranoid liars.)

4. I have never wanted or intended to hurt Amanda. I have never lied or deceived Amana. She initiated contact again on July 12 and I have kept every single item of communication from March 6, 2019 -when we met. When Amanda initiated contact on July 12, 2019, I believe it was out of love.

(Never lied or deceived? Really? Never? How about the OKCupid profile that said that he never had children and never wanted children?)

5. Sadly there has been and still is a perfidious and malignant third party in this whole matter in the person of Erin L. Getty-who has manipulated Amanda and the situation. Erin tried manipulating me one night using alcohol. She is a terrible person, a liar, an alcoholic with the only motive founded, I believe, in jealousy of Amanda.

(Apparently offering someone a glass of wine, and then them drinking the ENTIRE bottle is manipulating a person with alcohol. It is pretty easy to say, no thanks, I don't want to drink any wine. Instead, he voluntarily drank the bottle.)

6. How do I know that Erin L. Getty has not influenced the victim input statement?

(Is the Victim Input Statement the statement that I gave police? If so, she wasn't there, and usually didn't even know I filed charges until later when I let her know about the crazy day I had.)

7. I want Amanda to hear what I have to say and hear, know, and see the truth. Why are we hiding, running, avoiding, and ignoring the truth?

(Says the guy hiding, running, avoiding and ignoring the truth about where he lives, works, etc.)

8. I am prepared to fight this because Amanda is worth it!!!!

(Like a physical fight? I am pretty sure I can take him. Almost did on the main street of Stratford once.)

9. I don't want a record!

(Awe, boo hoo! Should have thought of that before you started all of this, and just understand that no means no.)

10. Why DV? This is not Domestic Violence. This is just a situation of manipulation and paranoia! 11. The relationship is paramount.

(Domestic Violence because we were in a relationship, and Asshole became controlling and manipulative. The stalking behaviour would also confirm that.)

12. We are only here because of Erin L. Getty and her manipulation and lies! The person who is guilty of

harassment is Erin L. Getty and by extension,

Amanda Ruth Cuff (née Verhoeven)

(What? Give me one example of a lie that Erin told about Asshole.)

13. I desire to speak to Amanda, no record. I'll plead to one count but that is the condition.

(If you plead to any counts, you will have a record. Do you understand how that works? As well, I believe he was facing 8 counts...)

14. How can we expedite this?

(Well... Pretty certain that Asshole dragged this out by not pleading guilty when he agreed too...)

15. There is a pattern in the behaviour of Erin L. Getty and Amanda Cuff.

(Totally! Our pattern of behaviour involves hanging out, chatting, going for long walks and having lots of laughs. We do this over and over all the time.)

16. I'm not prepared to plead guilty to a situation that is based in lies, stories, fantasy, and fabrication.

(Cool, let's let a jury decide then if this situation is based on lies, stories, fantasy and fabrication. Oh wait, you know that they will see through the bullshit.)

17. Amanda is the reason I completed my divorce, applying for a Declaration of Nullity, one of the reasons for becoming a Roman Catholic, trying to buy a house together and making arrangements for our life together as a married couple and our wonder blended family of six kids, Clara, Robbie, Sophie, Theresa, Hugh, and Malcolm. (That is in the order of their ages.)

(Really? Who's idea was all of that? Let's think that one through.)

18. Monday, January 6, 2020 was supposed to be our wedding day. I was looking forward to it so much, because it would have been the happiest day of my life, because I would be marrying the great love of my life. It is my fervent hope this can still happen this year!

(The amount of planning that was going into that day... All I asked for was one specific hymn to be played, and that idea was completely rejected. This was all going to be an elaborate show about Asshole, nothing to do with anyone else. Heck, he should have a wedding to himself...)

19. I miss Amanda, Robbie, Theresa, and Malcolm very much. I miss Amanda's parents, John and Marlene, and Amanda's brothers and their families.

(Name them. The people that you miss, name them. Oh shit, you can't because you don't fucking know them. You miss the idea of them. The idea of manipulating more people, weaving them into your web.)

20. I'm very sorry if I hurt Amanda. I'm not angry at her. I love her more than anything in the world and every day I find new reasons why I feel the way I do.

(I wonder if he has ever said this exact same line to any other women, just insert their name here. Spoiler alert, pretty certain he has.)

21. I cannot imagine my life without her. She is and will always be my beloved, beautiful and darling fiancée, and the Great Love of my Life!

(There is that phrase again, GLOML... If I was the one and only, that means that he isn't still using this phrase for someone else, right?)

22. What is the possibility of a successful outcome if I fight this whole situation?

(Depends on what you call successful. To me, never seeing you again would be successful..)

23. A narcissist's response to the truth is filing a police report against you or taking you to court for the very things they are guilty of.

(Narcissist come again? I wonder, how many times has he called the police on me, but they won't respond because of the sheer ridiculousness of his complaint.)

24. I feel I need to speak from my heart.

(Ever see a picture of a smokers lung? I wonder if smoking has the same effect on other organs, like the heart?)

25. She has done everything that I have been accused of before I did.

(I invited him to my house, therefore I didn't lie about where I live. He went to my work, therefore I didn't lie about my work. What have I done that he is accused of?)

26.

(Did he forget to put something for 26, or is it symbolically blank?)