DSLOML or is it DLLOML or is it just LOML...


 

If the title above is confusing for you, then please let me explain. If you understand it, and were given your own version, please share! 

When I was first getting to know Asshole, I did what any normal single woman would do, I googled him. I found some stuff, his Instagram, etc. There were some pretty sappy posts for his ex-wife in what I assumed were happier times. My spidey senses tingled a bit, because there was so much. However, I myself hadn't gone back and deleted past posts with my ex-husband. Mind you we were never lovey dovey on social media.

One of the things that I noticed was Asshole used the acronym DSLOML and I had no clue what it meant. It didn't matter, it was in reference to someone else.

Then he started to call me DLLOML, and explained it's meaning. Red flags went off, as that meant that the meaning of DSLOML, the S stood for his ex-wife. It bothered me that he was reusing a phrase that he created for his ex-wife and substituted one letter for me.

Asshole had some grand explanation about how he didn't know then that he hadn't yet met the true love of his life, and that I was now the true owner of that title. For awhile I bought the bullshit. I guess I wanted to believe that I was special.

However, now that there have been more victims, and he has changed the phrase again and again, to the point that it is now just LOML or Love of My Life. I think sometimes there is a G for Great in front of it, to distinguish the current one from the last one, etc. 

The biggest take away from this, is that Asshole is not original, or unique. He has a prewritten playbook and everything that he says or does has been said or done before with another woman, and will be used again with the next.

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