His Favourite Photo

 

Over the past couple of years, there has been a recurring theme in Assholes blog/social media posts… They often include photos that have background photos of me. I don’t know if I should be flattered, or not. Usually, I just laugh.

The most famous picture is of me in the green and black dress… Except he has made it black and white. I think that is probably a good choice, seeing as that photo was my OKCupid profile picture, which means it predates him.

Actually, that picture was taken by the man who came before him. It was taken while I was getting ready for a party that we were attending. It was a great night, and I was positively beaming.

I sometimes wonder if Asshole was obsessed with that picture, because I never smiled at him like that. The three months with him was a whirlwind of chaos and fear, and I realize that I probably hardly smiled, or if I did, I felt forced to.

I wonder what Asshole would think when he looked at a picture of a smile that was meant for another man?

While I don’t have a copy of the photo saved on my computer anymore, (long since deleted as it is a memory of a time long ago,) Varity has a copy on their blog. If you want to see it, pop on over to her blog to read more of the story there. https://truthandrecovery.wordpress.com/2022/02/21/photos-by-ladybird/

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