A LOVE LETTER FROM MY EX-BOYFRIEND TO MY EX-HUSBAND aka You can't make this shit up

 As always, the text in purple is from Google Docs converting an image to text.

Dear Rob-

Basic draft

Date Feb 17, 2020

I hope this finds you well. This may be an awkward letter to read. I know it is an awkward letter to write. I've been reflecting on it for some time now. It's a risk because of who/what Amanda is Regardless of the mess that Amanda has created with the aid of Erin Getty, she is still and will always be the Great Love of my life; and even though there has been a lot of stuff, my thoughts and feelings about Amanda are the most honest and Sincere truths in my life, and I believe this whole matter is fixable. I still want to marry Amanda and spend my life with

her.

This whole situation is due in part to a misunderstanding and miscommunication not to mention the manipulation and interference Erin. Amanda told me that Erin is the inadvertent cause of the breakdown of your relationship. In my case Erin is the direct cause. I believe it is out of jealousy and a need to control Amanda. To be blunt Erin is no more than a toxic narcissist and a drunk! (Sorry I have to be frank.) I am concerned about the effect on Amanda and the three kids. Erin's lies and deceit are at the heart Whatever is between Amanda and you is your business. I think she is amazing and absolutely perfect. Your three children are wonderful and I really like them.

of

this

I have no idea what or how much you know but I wouldn't be surprised it is based in assumptions and fabrications. What I can tell you is Amanda misunderstood 50 as 15 and she contacted Erisi when upset and then went through my work bag and did not understand the contents of a confidential file which she could have read with prior to that said it was my business. If she had talked tome she would know the truth. Instead she has been manipulated

me,

but

(Imagine receiving this letter about your ex-wife! My ex just laughed and laughed when he received his version. Which I believe I have that copy still in it's police evidence bag, I really should remember to post it too! I love that he blames the breakdown of my marriage on Erin... Seeing as I met her in August, on a very casual basis through an organization we were both members of, and then my marriage ended a few months later. Trust me, when I say that my marriage ending had nothing to do with Erin. I think that our friendship solidified after my marriage ended to be honest, not before.

There it is again, 50 Brown, not 15... I actually found something online that I am going to put in a separate post tomorrow about the addresses, and photographic proof of the lie.)

Date

and poisoned by Erin and is running from the thith. I want to be very clear. Amanda is the primary reason for my divorce- there is nothing inadvertent about it! I'm glad she is the reason. She is the main reason I applied for an anulment. That letter came today and it is coming to its conclusion. Amarda is the primary reason I'm becoming a Roman Catholic. All of this was at Amanda's request and because it was / is important to her. I never lied to or deceived her. I made arrangements for Amanda to know and have access to everything. Given the plans we made I

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engagement ring, wedding ring, bank draft etc. are still here if she wants them. She is still my fiancée until we talk face to face like adults and as we promised. I believe in keeping promises and abhor lies.

When this started, Amanda was not well. A good friend told me, "Physiology impacts mental health. I think this was a contributing factor in all of this

and the to

I am gravely concerned for the safety and well-being of Amanda and the kids given the behaviour of Erin Getty

This letter is not for Amanda. It is for you. I have one

regret

• I should get to know you better because I believe what I know has been coloured by the influence of Erin. It is not too late for us to get to know one another. Feel free to contact me if you wish. Erin is no more than a bully

Life

I mean it when I say Amanda is the Great Love of my and I think she is perfect and utterly amazing. I want her in life because she is who she is and no-one and no- ever change that

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(Wouldn't the main reason for his divorce be because his ex-wife and children won't speak to him, or have anything to do with him? I mean, if they did want to be part of his life, he would probably still live with him, and I would never have had the misfortune of meeting the monster. It was never important to me that he become Catholic. He was what I call a wannabe Catholic anyway, so that was pretty close... Sorry to my Anglican friends for saying that, lol. 

Nice red flag there saying that I am still his fiancee until I speak to him. Nope, nope, nope. There is his not respecting boundaries and the word no. If he believes in keeping promises, what about the promise to his first wife?

See how he says that this letter is for my ex, and not me? That was him attempting to go around the release conditions he was under of not contacting me directly or indirectly. Thankfully the criminal justice system saw through that, and still charged him with violating his release conditions.)