January 16, 2020

 **As always, the text in purple is from Google Docs converting an image to text.**



January 16, 2019

My darling and beautiful fiancee I miss you so much. I love you! close My arms ache to hold

much. I love you! I really wish you you. I'm were to start with a going long conversation I had last night with an with an Anglican Anglican prest

friend. Even though we were talking about something related to a church matter, we did talk about you for over a hour. It was therapeutic, I confess. Please of relaying what we talked about. Before

I want you give me the indulgence. До I go into that I to know that how much I say I love you will always love you more than that. I plan to love you until for ever ends. i

So Fr. Randy and I had a long chat last night about us. As I said I wish he had been helping the summer. I was truthful from my perspective - I was very careful not to make any assumptions about things. I told Randy about us and he wants to know why Ereri has the power to destroy relationships and manipulate you from everything I have that is all he can see and he Po wants to know and I couldn't answer it - but are you in because

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(Wait a minute, Fr Randy?? OMG, there is more to say about Fr. Randy, but legally I am not allowed. Someone remind me to revisit this once I am allowed to talk about him.)




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a form of counselling because what happened isn't rational. So, I'm taking a lot of time to think about the

whole conversation.

Then walked

Morning was good. Busy but good. Was able to walk some more today. Brief lunch meeting with a colleague up to the hospital. Today we got a full fist-but that required. heat and a new "toy for me a velcro strap. I can dispense with the strap splint. I'm only supposed to wear it when I'm walking outdoors now. After over an hour went back to work. Had a number of emails. Decided to hang out downtown before RCIA at 7pm. I'm really looking forward each week to RCLA- it is the best decision I made and it is all up to you. Thank you my darling.

When I a

get home from RCIA, I will tell you all about what I learned. We are in the catechumenate period When I had my conversation with Randy last night I told him we can fix this. He told me that if he had been our priest, we wouldn't be where we are right now. My darling, I know this is so fixable. I want us and you. I've never been so sure of something in all of my life. I just July 3 and we wouldn't be you to think I'm angry at you. Everything I've said is the thith to you. I have never lied about my feelings wished here. I you had talked to me on. never want or deceived you!

Amanda you have and always satisfy my every need. You are absolutely perfect. You fill me with joy and I'm excited by you and us! I've never been so us sure about wanting to marry you. J want to spend my life with you. Today I saw a little new born at the hospital 64

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(I wonder if Fr. Randy is familiar with the claims about what he has said to Asshole. If anyone knows Fr. Randy, perhaps show him this to see if he remembers this conversation.)




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and if and when that were to happen it would make me the happiest man on the planet! I know we fell in love fast you stole my heart from day one. I remember seeing you in person for the first time and I can assure you it was WOW!

I don't understand why you allow Erin to be your There is nothing inadvertent about her. I want you friend. to know that I'm not going to say who your friends are That is not my place, but I have an issue about lies and fabrications. Amanda she has deceived you. I feel bad I'm writing this but that is the truth of ever the matter d

So right now, I'm waiting on RCIA. I've signed up to do another Lenten podcast as you have inspired me to do so.Jm sony I had to be sort of negative about Erin but I feel you needed to hear what my friend said after we talked and from all the Emails you wrote to me and he picked up on it.

When I get home I will finish this daily installment I've written quite a bit today. but I have time I really miss you my darling fiancée. Let's give this a chance. It is said love is better the second time around. Love, indeed really conquers all I want and trily desire a reconciliation and I will compromise and endeavour to give more and RCIA was good. We continued talking about make this work. I truly adore you about

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(Negative about Erin, yet when I knew him in real life he was her biggest fan. Of course she offered him alcohol and didn't judge him for drinking an entire bottle of wine himself... Now that he is cut off from that free alcohol he has a problem with her.)




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acraments. I have to be confirmed again. I do hope ardently you will be my sponsor. Got home around 9:30pm. Just enjoying a large chai latte. I miss and I love you. Will write tomonow

Your ever loving fiancé,


(By this point in his RCIA journey, unbeknownst to Asshole, I had already reached out to my church, the Marriage Tribunal and his "parish" to let them know that I would not ever be marrying him, or part of his RCIA journey. I think that the church in Stratford was letting him come to the RCIA meetings, etc knowing full well that they would not allow him to become Catholic since everything was based on a lie. They were just biding their time. I think at this point, he was still living with an older lady that he manipulated from the Catholic church.) 


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