The Infamous Safety Deposit Box


 

I was going through my phone downloads looking for something from forever ago, and I happened across a safety deposit box listing that Asshole had on his blog. It's dated April 29, 2021, which as we all know is after he delivered The Manifesto to my parents address.

This means that it is also after he plead guilty to multiple charges including criminal harassment, AND it's after he violated those conditions of no contact direct or indirect and was charged with more criminal harassment charges. (Among others.)

This guy just wouldn't stop. He had exhausted all means of communication via email, snail mail, contacting family members, coworkers, priests (not just mine, but other denominations as well) and had resorted to posting lies on the internet. At one point, his bail conditions stated that he was not allowed to even access the internet, but it was clear that the resources to police that did not exist, and the condition was dropped.

I am not sure what he thought was going to happen by posting the imaginary contents of a safety deposit box. I mean, it must have been a massive box. There were 76 items on the list. It included approximately 32 pieces of jewelry (how many strands of pearls does one person need?) It included the paperwork for a Kia vehicle that was paid for in full but somehow the dealership was ok with it sitting on their property for time eternal until I came to pick it up. There are many envelopes of cash for various birthdays, graduations, etc. Actually, I just realized that there is a Kia SUV and a car of some sort. How I can drive two cars at the same time is beyond me. 

It makes me wonder how he can believe that these items exist. Especially with someone like Asshole who can't spend the money to fix his very visibly broken teeth, yet he has a safety deposit box filled with pearls and diamonds and cash.

Safety Deposit Box Listing

Asshole uses the promise of gifts, and wealth to control his victims. It is the continued belief and manipulations that keep his victims hoping that he is right, so that they don't feel stupid. No one wants to admit that they fell for such lies and manipulations. If you are caught in his web of lies, please feel free to reach out. I have been there myself, so I can understand the situation that you are in, and can offer some help and guidance on how to move forward.

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