December 28 - Item from back pocket
Eric Osborne
organisteric@gmail.com 519.274.0148
Saturday, December 28, 2019
I have endeavoured big time not to not breach. I must say that Amanda has been unstable from the reports I have had. I want this matter to go away. It is becoming harassing and it is a nothing more than emotional abuse.
(Phew, he is ready to finally move on. At this point, I had done nothing other than report it to police each time he broke the law. Apparently that constitutes emotional abuse. I wonder what reports he was receiving about me being unstable.)
It is my hope that this matter will be resolved by having all charges withdrawn and all restraints removed. Amanda and I need to talk face to face. I still love her with all my heart and I do not want to give up on her. I want to continue my relationship with Amanda and build the life we have planned until this situation arose starting in July. We cannot do this until this is resolved and we can discuss everything face to face and the future. I am not angry at her. Instead it is having the opposite effect.
(Good to know that despite my emotional abuse, he still wanted to build a life together.)
I have collected all the emails/communications between Amanda Cuff. except for one which I deleted and Amanda sent that on the evening of September 19, 2019 after I had been in court that day. I deleted it because I did not want to be in a breach situation. I have no idea what it was probably about. Since then I have not responded to any emails or messages and I have been very circumspect about things in terms of disseminating information and my social media presence is curtailed as indicated on that 'pink' form that you have a copy of.
(The only communication that I made in September, was that I posted on a picture on his Facebook page that was of my children, asking him to delete any and all pictures/references to my children on his social media. There is no pink copy with this, so I can only imagine what is on there.)
If you have any questions please do not hesitate to contact me. There are all kinds of Amanda's assumptions and lies in there. I believe that Erin L. Getty has been assisting with the creativity of many of them. I have given you the correspondence that I have received in the dates outlined in the 'pink' document.
My instructions are I desire a reconciliation. I would like Amanda and I to start talking. This whole situation could have been dealt with in another way, if there wasn't a toxic narcissistic influence, an éminence grisé. I will not agree to less. I want this withdrawn if totally possible. How we proceed I would like to discuss with you if we can at your earliest convenience.
(This document was made for the court, I assume in defense of the criminal charges he was facing. Asshole seemed to think that the charges should be dropped so that him and I could talk. What judge would agree to that, I can't imagine.)
To begin with, I want this relationship. Amanda is the great love of my life. She is non-negotiable in my life.
I want this predicament to go away. I want every attempt made to have a reconciliation with Ladybird...that's what I call her.
I will not agree to a No Contact order if this matter is resolved.
(Nothing like telling a judge that you refuse to adhere to a no contact order, like the one in place at the time this manifesto was left for me.)
I believe Amanda wants this relationship.
(Clearly, based on the amount of criminal harassment charges that were laid. That is obviously what a person who wants a relationship would do.)
I believe Amanda is being manipulated by Erin Getty. See below.
Many things I have been accused of, Amanda did in the first place. I believe she may have some narcissistic tendencies, or the manipulation by Erin Getty is definitely narcissistic.
Erin is behind all this. She was the "inadvertent cause of the breakdown of Amanda's first marriage." (That is a direct quote from Amanda herself. Erin is the cause of the breakdown of our relationship.
(I don't even know how he thinks that Erin caused the breakdown in my marriage. I had barely known Erin at the time. Never have I blamed Erin for the breakdown of my marriage.)
There are many fabrications to make the reality.
Every time something happens, Erin Getty's name is always mentioned.
Here is some extra information that may prove useful in this matter.
1. This is my statement that I made to the police:
Statement September 19, 2019
I was in a romantic relationship with Amanda Ruth Cuff (a.k.a. Amanda Ruth Verhoeven). We became engaged on May 2, 2019. It was to be a second marriage for us.
On July 3, 2019, Amanda and I had a misunderstanding over two issues and a miscommunication and instead of Amanda taking responsibility and acting in an adult manner, she has engaged in a reckless campaign of gaslighting, character assassination fabrication of stories, spreading of half-truths, and inaccuracies founded on assumptions and paranoia, even when evidence/proof to the contrary has been offered or provided.
(The misunderstanding was that I no longer was willing to believe the three months of non stop lies that I had been told. There is no evidence to prove that Asshole was telling the truth.)
I have taken responsibility for my role in this misunderstanding and miscommunication resulting in the complication of the relationship. I have apologized for hurting her in the way I did and have promised that I will try my best to make sure it doesn't happen and again and with her help and support that can happen.
(He took responsibility by blaming me for not being willing to accept his lies.)
I believe that this behaviour and actions are being encouraged and enabled by Amanda's friend, Erin L. Getty. I first met Erin L. Getty on April 6, 2019 at Tillsonburg Mall. She has been intent on destroying my relationship with Amanda. When I met Erin she threatened me three times. There was a witness present who suggested I not tell Amanda because of the explosive reaction that would come from Amanda and Erin. I was told it would be better that Amanda find this out herself. On the night of April 5, 2019, Amanda told me, "Erin was the inadvertent cause of the breakdown of her first marriage." Amanda later put this in a email to me. Since my first meeting with Erin, I have been wary of the dysfunctional friendship they have. I believe Erin is a narcissistic toxic, abusive, erratic individual with severe alcohol abuse issues. I have always been fearful of her.
(Erin has never threatened Asshole. I don't think that they have ever had a private conversation.)
On July 3, when Amanda and I had our misunderstanding/miscommunication, Amanda and I were in Stratford where I was living until July 25, 2019. Instead of speaking to me, Amanda fled back to Tillsonburg at approximately 11:30 a.m..Amanda then began a tirade of abusive and threatening texts using WhatsApp. At the same time, I received two Facebook messages from Erin L. Getty uttering threats and harassing sentiments. After review with security at work, I begged them not to involve the Stratford Police as it would implicate Amanda and I did not want that to happen.
(Any messages that I sent were instructions on how Asshole could retrieve his personal belongings. The Oxford OPP were aware of the Messages that Erin sent, as a police officer dictated the message and read it before it was sent. This was done this way, because Asshole's phone didn't work, and the officer tried calling him personally. He was given a case # and phone number to call if he wanted his things back, as he required a police escort to come to my home.)
Wevvspent July and August trying to communicate via email to work this through. I have kept all emails from Amanda. At no time has Amanda ever indicated to cease communication. I even gave her space to deal with her feelings. She instigated all communication and I have emails to prove this. I only responded at her initiative.
(I did not instigate the communication, and at no time did I say that I wanted him back. I continually told him that I would not be in a relationship with someone who lied, and was wanted by police.)
Amanda's behaviour and actions lead me to believe that she is a narcissist and that our relationship is founded on her deceit and lies. I have done a lot of research and reading and with reflection with my therapist, I have learned there are several types of narcissists. Amanda has used lies, gaslighting, denial, and manipulation in all of this. She has anger issues.
(Cool, cool, if all of these are true about me, then why say at the beginning of this letter that he wanted a relationship. Obviously I am batshit crazy.)
I have witnessed on many occasions Amanda lose control of her anger. She has anger management issues. On two occasions she viciously slapped her three year old son, Malcolm Cuff, which upset me to the point of tears. I had to beg her not to hit her children as a form of punishment on three occasions. When Amanda loses her temper I feel she has a lapse of judgement without any regard to the consequences of her behaviour and actions. Amanda uses text messages to bait, attack, and emotionally and verbally abuse her ex-husband, Rob Cuff (Brownsville, Ontario). I have been witness to this on three occasions, most notably, June 25, 2019, following Robbie Cuff's graduation ceremony. I had to ask for her phone from her to stop it.
(I will not deny that Asshole saw me lose my cool once, and smack Malcolm after he had been very physical with me. Parenting fail 101 on my part. Did it happen multiple times, nope. Did I emotionally and verbally abuse my ex husband on the night of Robbie's graduation, nope. Did Asshole take away my phone? Nope.)
Amanda manipulates the truth to justify her actions and behaviour. Amanda emailed me her version of what happened between us that email. and advised me my story must agree with hers or there would be severe repercussions. Amanda's story has changed twice since
I believe Amanda's dysfunctional friendship with Erin L. Getty and Erin's "grooming" of Amanda has fuelled Amanda's narcissistic behaviour resulting in a rage-filled attack on me to get "one up on me" for hurting Amanda in her opinion and by extension Erin L. Getty and exposing their narcissistic personalities. In March/early April, I watched them conduct a "witch- hunt" and vindictively and viciously attack Caroline, a guide leader here in Tillsonburg. Erin clearly manipulated Amanda to be Guide leadership in Tillsonburg and at the provincial level. the person attacking Caroline. I warned Amanda then to remove herself from it. I conveyed my concerns about this to the Girl
In all of this I want it known that this is a disagreement between an engaged couple, blown completely out of proportion, fuelled by uncontrollable anger and retribution because I "hurt" Amanda's feelings.
At the end of it, I still adore Amanda. Our relationship is complicated. However, it is fixable. I adore Amanda no matter what. Even though Amanda and Erin have viciously attacked me, I am willing to work it through and spend the rest of my life with Amanda and still marry her because I know the read Amanda and I know she is perfect no matter what.
2. The matter of July 3 that set this whole maelstrom in motion is based on three things. Amanda went to an address we were going to go together on July 3 after I had a commitment. She decided to go on her own without me. She misheard me. The address was 50 Brown Street. She went to 15 )It doesn't exist). She then tried to call my cell phone number and she had the number. That old cell phone number was 226.921.4614. I didn't have a working cell phone number for a few reasons. wrong I was shopping around for a new plan. I got this new number a few days after we had this misunderstanding (519.274.0148.) I believe she then called Erin L. Getty and that began the mess. She left Stratford immediately I believe and returned to Tillsonburg. When she returned to Tillsonburg she went through my work briefcase which contained my drafts of my divorce paperwork which she initially didn't want to read, and she began to read through there and she saw information and began reading into things and making assumptions. That is what this whole situation is based on.
(Truth is, I did not drive past Brown Street on July 3rd. I already knew that he had lied about it. The previous time I was in Stratford I drove past, and then went home to double check the address he had written down for me. The address he told me was the non-existent 15 Brown Street. The police were the ones that called the number that didn't work. That wasn't even part of the lies that caused me to leave him, just added fuel to the fire. I only contacted Erin after I had made the decision to leave Asshole.)
3. On July 8, Erin L. Getty and Amanda returned belongings I had left at Amanda's as well as every single thing I had ever given Amanda. Basically Amanda wanted to erase every trace of me. They made a dramatic situation of it, with 4 police cars, two from the Stratford Police Service and 2 OPP cars. Erin did all the talking. She was verbally abusive to me, and most of her words were expletives. Amanda was made to sit in the passenger seat of Erin's car with tears streaming down her face and the last thing I saw of her was her mouthing the words, "I'm sorry she's doing this and I love you." That broke my heart. 4. I have never lied to Amanda about my life in Stratford and my job, etc. Instead she has accused me of lies directed at her. 5. I have been completely faithful to Amanda.
(Good thing police keep great records. There were two police cars, not 4, both were Stratford police. OPP would have arrested him for his outstanding warrants, Stratford did not have the manpower to do so that day. I was not crying, and I did not look at him, let alone mouth anything to him. Maybe Erin swore at him, that's probably true, he deserved it. He lied, because he didn't have a job, let alone the two that he told me about. He cheated on me with men... Apparently same sex sex doesn't count as cheating.)
6. Amanda Cuff is also known as Amanda Verhoeven. Her birthday is November 26, 1982.
7. Our engagement has not been broken off because we had always agreed to speak to each other in person. Instead I just referred to it as being complicated. Maybe we said some cross words to each other when we were upset with each other. 8. I have wanted to discuss this whole thing with Amanda, but she has fabricated a story and perpetuated lies of her own making, and has dealt with this in an inappropriate way.
(Just because one person wants to still get married does not mean that the engagement is still on.)
9. We have never had a fight about anything, so Amanda's behaviour is unknown to me. I am finding in this she is erratic and unstable.
10. Using The Rev. Lorne Mitchell's words, "Amanda thinks I deceived her. "I have never deceived her. I have not lied to her. We had a miscommunication about a number of things which set this all in motion.
11. I believe Amanda is a narcissist. She is delusional and has admitted she has communication issues and doesn't understand. I believe she hears what she wants to hear.
look at Erin L. Getty...see below. 12. Amanda made a gross accusation that I am an alcoholic. That is unequivocally untrue and I can prove it. I think she should
(In a 48 hour period he drank a bottle of Jack Daniels (small) two bottles of gin (larger) two or three bottles of wine, and a smaller bottle of something else that I have forgotten. That's alot of alcohol for one person. He also hid the bottles after finishing them, clear signs of an alcoholic.)
13. Amanda told me that Erin L. Getty was a police dispatcher. She quit her job in January 2019 because of three officer
suicides in her detachment. That is the story I was told. She is currently a meals and wheels driver in Tillsonburg. She was is the story I was told by Amanda Cuff. the chair of the Station Arts Centre Board until they had to remove her because of her harassing and abusive behaviour. That
14. Erin L. Getty lives on Highway 19 (Broadway) just near the intersection of North Street. I do not have an address or phone number or email address for her. I have her blocked on my email just using her name if it were to appear in any email. She has only contacted me twice...on July 3, 2019 with the two threatening Facebook messages which I did not pursue with the police as it would have created a situation for Amanda which I do not want. Erin is an alcoholic. She has been referred to me as abusive, harassing, toxic person by people who have spoken with me about the situation. She is a manipulative person. She used alcohol one night to manipulate and brainwash me about a situation. I think Erin is jealous of Amanda. I think she is jealous of the tenderness and intimacy Amanda and I have in our relationship. Erin is a highly dangerous, toxic and manipulative abuser. I will not be in her presence at all. Erin Getty is a perfidious, deceitful, and insidious person. 15. When I first met Erin L. Getty it was an interrogation. She was hungover and I believe consuming alcohol out of a Tim Hortons cup. (I could smell it on her) This first meeting was at the Tillosnburg Mall on April 6 around 10:30 a.m.. The Girl Guides were selling cookies, Erin was ridiculing me for being a Christian and ridiculing Amanda for being a Christian and that I would be encouraging her in her Christian life. Erin promised me that I would never replace her in Amanda's affections. Erin promised me that I would never replace her in Malcolm, Robbie, and Theresa's affections. Erin promised me she would destroy me if I ever hurt Amanda. This was followed up with the statement that she would make sure that Amanda would
never left Tillosnburg. I was shocked to know that Amanda has such a toxic friend and I made a decision to be very circumspect about my feelings and thoughts about Erin.
16. I believe Erin L. Getty is a bully.
Amanda refers to Erin L. Getty as the "inadvertent cause of the breakdown of her marriage." (This was in an email and also and in an in person conversation There is nothing inadvertent about breaking down a marriage. You either are or you are not. Erin has now done it again. Amanda told me that Erin was using CPIC to "vett" Amanda's potential boyfriends. Amanda told me that she wouldn't let Erin "vett" me.
(Erin never misused her access to information professionally for personal use. If she had, I would have known that Asshole had warrants for his arrest, and I never would have gone on that first date with him. Gosh this would have saved me so much time, if she had broken the law for me.)
17. Amanda's ex-husband is Robert Cuff. He lives in Brownsville, Ontario (to the west of Tillsonburg). I don't have a contact for him, except he is on Facebook, and I did correspond with him in a Facebook message back before this situation escalated. He is the owner of High Performance Steel Services and I have been able to locate a phone number in Ingersoll, ON. I believe he can be contacted there. 519-485-7555. He seems to be a reasonable person. Amanda has described him as a narcissist. I don't think he is. I have seen him be very tender with his children. Although the older children are of an age where they could be trying on him and he doesn't seem to have a close relationship with Robbie or Theresa. (Amanda told me that is because he was away working a lot when they were younger) He is absolutely wonderful with the youngest, Malcolm. However Amanda is always fighting with him and picks fights and can be quite aggressive with him. I have had to intervene on two occasions to break the fight up. The text messaging fights are enough to demonstrate Amanda has a short fuse. In particular, the one of June 24, 2019. I had to stop that fight because it was escalating inappropriately.
(I am impressed here... Asshole managed to find a phone number for Hi-Performance, that at the time he wrote this hadn't been in use for more than 9 years! The amount of time that must have taken. Also, at the time that I knew Asshole, Hi-Performance Steel Services had ceased to exist.)
18. Amanda's Mom is Marlene Verhoeven. Her address is R.R. #4 Ingersoll N5C 3J7. I believe her phone number is 519.485.xxxx. I correspond with her on Facebook. We are no longer Facebook friends. Yes I did write to her once on Facebook. That was back at the beginning of July 3. The message I sent to Marlene is included in this package of things. In the synopsis read out in bail court, Amanda refers to me contacting her.
19. Amanda has three children. Robbie is 14, Theresa is 12 and Malcolm is 3. I adore them. Robbie is a quiet teenager. He and I have a good relationship, I think. We have had a few conversations that he trusted me with. Robbie confided in me some things about his mom's behaviour on one occasion. Theresa came out as a lesbian last January. She is a good kid, but she has some issues which were coming to a point that they needed to be addressed. This occurred one week before July 3, 2019 and I expressed some concern that there needed to be something done as I thought she either had a form of depression or she had a behavioural problem. She has a "therapist", but I suggested speaking with the family doctor about some of the behaviours and maybe trying to get a referral to a professional for observation. I can elaborate further on this. Malcolm is a very happy three year old and I really like him a lot. He's a real sweetheart.
(Ahhh, I almost forgot about his issues with Theresa! On the Friday before things ended she had a therapy session, which was normal for her. Afterwards, she was quite happy to tell Asshole, that he had given her alot of material to talk about this session, and she needed another one soon to continue the issues. Asshole went through the roof with rage about her talking about him with her therapist. He went on a rant about how she needed to be medicated, and if we were to continue our relationship, I must fire that therapist. What a red flag. If he had nothing to hide, it wouldn't have bothered him.)
20. The Rev. Osita Oluigbo is the Rector of St. John's Tillsonburg. He met Amanda and I back in April. I have spoken with him several times. He knows us well as a couple. Please contact him. His contact is St. John's Anglican Church, 46 Ridout Street West, Tillsonburg, ON N4G 2E3. His phone number is 226.970.1120. His email is rectorsdesk@gmail.com. The deacon at St. John's is The Rev. Vermell Stevens. She knows a bit of the situation. She would be able to address the Girl Guide connection (see below). Her email is vermell@oxford.net.
(I wouldn't say seeing us together at church a handful of times counts as knowing us well as a couple. As for the Girl Guide connection, Vermell was a Ranger leader at the time, and in the local Guiding circles, her, Erin and I never crossed paths. She was not aware of any "situation.")
21. The Rev. Canon Dr. Lorne Mitchell is the Rector of St. James' Stratford. He was going to marry us on January 6, 2020. We met with him several times before July 3, 2019 to plan our wedding. I have met with him several times since then on my own. He is in possession of an inflammatory email from Amanda. (This email was sent to every clergy person I have not seen it, nor do I want to see it because I think it will upset me greatly. His contact is: 519.271-3572. email is wlornemitchell@cvg.net. The email sent to Lorne was sent to a number of people at St. James. From what Lorne told me on July 18, 2019 when we met after what happened, Amanda did a blanket email to everyone at St. James, but one email address bounced back. That was the Rev. Canon Tom Paterson, who is the deacon of the church. I believe this inflammatory email was the result of being hurt after what happened and that we had to get one up on me. (Note in the synopsis that was read out in court, I contacted her priest...see below under Rev. John Pirt...but her action was completely inappropriate.
(I did send an email to all of the clergy, as Lorne was on vacation and I didn't know who Asshole was going to send after me. Asshole uses Flying Monkeys to do his bidding, and after the messages he had sent about various things, I knew that I needed to let the clergy know that a) there would not be a wedding and b) I do not wish to ever reconcile with Asshole, so please do not counsel him to talk to me, it is not an option.)
22. The Rev. Elaine Siberry-Clark is one of the priests at St. James. She is a honorary assistant. She was responsible for the pastoral concerns when this whole situation started on July 3, 2019, and she spoke with me while Lorne was on vacation. Her email address is clark elaine@wightman.ca. I do not have a phone number for her. When Lorne returned from his vacation she asked me not to speak with her about the pastoral implications of the situation because now that Lorne had returned. I am okay with that. She received the inflammatory email from Amanda, but it was sent to her place of employment, Greenwood Court, which has no connection to St. James. This clearly was Amanda lashing out at being hurt.
(Again, Asshole was sending me messages saying that Elaine insisted that him and I must talk to each other. The only email address available was what turned out to be an address for her other job. I emailed her and explained that no amount of advice to Asshole telling him that he needed to speak to me was going to help. That I did not want to ever see him again, and please stop telling him to talk to me. She responded very kindly by saying that she would not give Asshole further advice to talk to me.)
23. The Rev. John Pirt is the pastor of St. Mary's Catholic Church in Tillsonburg. He was going to be filing my annulment paperwork for the marriage tribunal of the Roman Catholic Diocese of London. I did contact him about the situation. Only once and we have not had any correspondence since. A copy of that email can attached in this package. His contact
information is 519.842.3224. jpirt@dol.ca. I have subsequently started the process to be received into the Catholic church. That is through my parish affiliation at St. Joseph's Church, here in Stratford.
24. Back in March and April, Amanda was manipulated to pursue a "witch hunt" with Erin L. Getty (they both run the Girl Guides in Tillsonburg) against Caroline XX, a leader in the Girl Guide Unit. (I only know this person's first name). I begged Amanda to get out of the situation because it was becoming extremely toxic. It was in this situation that I learned that Erin was abusive and toxic and I decided to keep a distance from her. I did speak with other Guide leaders regarding this situation at the beginning of July and that was at the behest of The Rev. Vermell Stevens (see the contact regarding The Rev. Osita Oligubo) and Dorothy Cooper (email: d.d.cooper@sympatico.ca) (who are both involved in the Girl Guides in Tillsonburg. They can all shed more light on the harassment that ensued about the situation and Cheralyn did tell me what the truth of the matter was, so that I was clear and that she knew the other side of the situation. Cherylyn Sawatzky | Deputy Provincial Commissioner Girl Guides of Canada, Ontario Council180 Duncan Mill Rd, Suite 100 | Toronto, ON M3B 1Z6Tel: 416.926.2351, ext. 6426 | Toll Free: 877.323.4545, ext. 6426 Email: dpc2@guidesontario.org. I did speak with Cherylyn in July as I wanted clarification about the situation and the lie that Amanda and Erin told me about Caroline is a grossly distorted story.
(While I won't go into details about the Caroline issue, aside to say that she was exhibiting the exact same behavior's as Asshole, so obviously he now sides with her. Asshole did reach out to anyone and everyone in Guiding to make complaints, however those complaints were unfounded. If they had any real basis, Erin and I would have been removed as Guide leaders. We were not.)
25. One person that may be of interest in this situation would be Angela Duncan. She is Amanda's aunt on the Verhoeven side. They had a big blow up on Facebook back at the end of March because Amanda had posted some sensitive information regarding a client at her place of work, and Angela called Amanda out on this behaviour. I was asked to take a side in the whole situation, which of course I took Amanda's side.
(The conversation in question did not involve any sensitive information whatsoever. Asshole was the one who saw the comments made, and blew up on Facebook, causing things to escalate. That was before I even knew about what was being said. He tried to ride in like a knight in shining armour in the comments section like the keyboard warrior that he is.)
26. Amanda's place of employment is W.D. Accounting at 25 Harvey Street, Tillsonburg. Her employer is Wendy Dubé.
(Woot woot! This information at the time he wrote this is true! He told the truth!)
27. Amanda, or I believe, Erin L. Getty inappropriately contacted St. James Cathedral in Toronto where I was to present an organ recital on November 26, 2019. They cancelled my recital. They used the dean, The Very Rev. Stephen Vail as a "flying monkey" to attack me. This is not the first inappropriate attack. There is a whole sequence of them, some of which are outlined in this document.
(I did contact St. James Cathedral. Asshole had scheduled a recital when we were still together for my birthday. After things ended, and he had been charged with criminal harassment a couple of times, he was still continuing to advertise the recital as a recital for his fiancee Ladybird, etc. I contacted the Cathedral to see if it was being advertised as a birthday tribute by them as well, or just him on his online blogs/social media. They let me know that it was being advertised as a birthday recital for me. I then informed them that he was on release conditions not to contact me in anyway and that I would have to talk to police to see if this was a violation of the indirect contact/no posting about me, etc. When the cathedral learned that he was on no contact orders, they immediately canceled the concert and all future recitals in the diocese. They did not want to help him breach his no contact, etc)
28. Erin L. Getty or Amanda have been threatening my friends with phone calls. Shirley Ann Beecroft was the recipient of one of these phone calls and I believe she is telling the truth.
(Yep yep yep. Shirley received a phone call July 3rd saying please do not drive Asshole to Tillsonburg anymore, as we had broken up. Shirley made it clear that she was not his work assistant like he had told me.)
29. My divorce was ordered on October 29, 2019 in the Stratford Superior Court of Justice. Amanda is the cause of me finalizing my divorce. She has created more issues now with that destroying my relationship with my kids as a result. I know that I made the decision to do this, but I wouldn't have done it without the pressure from Amanda.
(I did not force him to get a divorce. When I had last seen him, I was under the impression he had been divorced for several years. As for the relationship with his kids... I never met them or had contact with him. He burned that bridge down a lifetime ago.)
30. Amanda's inappropriate lashing out to my church in Stratford has made me uncomfortable with church because of her lies and fabrications. There are emails to prove this.
(My "lashing out" made the church aware of all of the lies that he had been telling them. That is why he was uncomfortable. Otherwise, he could have been like "wow, I dodged a bullet with that crazy one" and I am sure that everyone would have laughed. That's how my church responded when things ended and he sent them emails, and was posting on their social media all kinds of crazy. Everyone rallied around me, instead of it causing issues. If he was telling the truth, his church would have rallied around him too.)
31. This behaviour is nothing but harassment and it needs to be stopped.
(Ok, then stop dropping off 140 page Manifesto's at my parents after pleading guilty to criminal charges.)
32. My Declaration of Nullity was filed at the Diocese of London Marriage Tribunal on November 11, 2019 and my first interview was scheduled for November 15, 2019.
33. As the result of Amanda, I sold my house as we were planning to buy a house together.
(The house that doesn't exist...)
34. We made two offers on a house in May, but those fell through because when prompted, Amanda would not contribute to the deposit or the down payment. She expected me to pay for a house for her and her children. We never had a conversation at any time about how we were going to handle finances, etc. I figured we were going to have that conversation on the first weekend of July when she was going to spend it in Stratford, Ontario.
(I was never asked to contribute. Asshole was wealthy beyond imagine, and he wanted to buy this house as a token of his love and affection for me and my children. I was uncomfortable with this, and kept insisting on going to the bank to apply jointly for a mortgage. Anytime I brought this up, he would lose his mind yelling or it would be the silent treatment. Both were terrifying.)
35. Amanda has admitted she has paranoia issues.
(Wouldn't you be paranoid if you realized that you believed a psychopathic liar for three months. Holy crap I didn't trust my judgement for along time.)
page. If you have any further questions about this matter, please do not hesitate to contact me at the contact information on the first
I look forward to hearing from you at your convenience.
Yours sincerely,
Eric Osborne
(While I can't imagine that this was read out in court, it would have been very funny to watch.)
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